I have an opponent that knows nothing about formal chess stuff, no glossary, no openings, and so on...
And yet that opponent destroys me every time with some DEEEEEP calculating, sometimes 20 minutes long for a single move in untimed chess...
I am nowhere good enough for that,. I have ADHD and lose track of what I was calculating in my head mid-move, and every time this happenhappens, I make some stupid blunder. (alsoAlso I tend to lose due to running out of time).
There isIs there any obvious playstyleplay style I can start to use to go around that weakness?